what are the chances your husband will cheat if you dont give it up on a regular basis?
as a wife, if you dont make him feel desired & appreciated in the bedroom…..will that increase the chances that they will cheat on you?
If he loves you he wont cheat - if you love him you will work on why your libido
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Blue B January 9th, 2009, 6:29 pm
quite high.
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CHBN January 9th, 2009, 7:13 pm
Depends on the husband.
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hippyjingle January 9th, 2009, 7:39 pm
it would have some sort of negative effect on him
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grand lake bum January 9th, 2009, 8:22 pm
yes, If he don't get it at home, home is gonna roam.
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a. beck January 9th, 2009, 8:47 pm
It not only increases the chances of him cheating on you but it could (if not do that) put strain on your relationship. You need to go to marriage counseling and get to the bottom of the issues. Good Luck!
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happywjc January 9th, 2009, 9:14 pm
Extremely HIGH
My marriage is on probation now!
because of that same issue!
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smurfy January 9th, 2009, 9:42 pm
if he loves you for you he ont but if he does then he was never yours.
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<$un$hin3> January 9th, 2009, 10:23 pm
it will increase the chances, but the guy before said, it totally depends on the husband.
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Susan M January 9th, 2009, 10:39 pm
It won't make for a good marriage. Do you want to feel undesirable and unappreciated? Would that make you more likely to look to someone else?
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thy January 9th, 2009, 11:13 pm
i guess it depends on the husband, but i dont think thats an excuse to cheat.
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getThis gotThat January 9th, 2009, 11:41 pm
depends on if he truly loves you or not.. why aren't you giving it up?
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tfblechris January 10th, 2009, 12:16 am
Depends on the man but it will definitely put a strain on your marriage.
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Bulletproof Bob January 10th, 2009, 1:05 am
I wouldn't cheat. I'd file for divorce and find someone that wants me.
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james2167uk January 10th, 2009, 1:10 am
If he loves you he wont cheat - if you love him you will work on why your libido
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Lisa Marie January 10th, 2009, 1:59 am
What if you had a husband that didn't speak to you. He did everything else. He worked, was a good father, changed the oil and cleaned house but refused to talk to you. Would you have the desire to look for communication somewhere else? Why would sex be any different?
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Chalie M January 10th, 2009, 2:49 am
Have to give it up???? you make sound like a chore I'd be gone by now with a thing like you to come home to B.
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this is harder than it looks. January 10th, 2009, 3:11 am
even the best man would be at least tempted, a weak man would cheat in a heart beat
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dixiegirl January 10th, 2009, 3:50 am
I think the guys of course will answer this one the best. Look at it from the other way around. We as wives want to know we are desirable and appreciated. Our husbands/boyfriends should get that same respect. Sex is an important part of a relationship, so if they aren't getting what they need at home, then yeah, most of them are gonna find it elsewhere.
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Kaia January 10th, 2009, 4:14 am
If you're thinking of it as "giving it up" when it comes to sex with your husband, then he probably needs to just divorce you and get it over with. Wow..this SHOULD be a lovely way to be closer… not like the castle is being stormed and the princess is being ravished.
You people really need to get a clue about sex.
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Leroy January 10th, 2009, 4:45 am
I'd say pretty damm good. If someone doesn't feel desired, wanted, and is starved of affection what would you expect. Withholding sex/affection makes a person vulnerable. They may not be looking and find themselves in a situation they cant handle. Remember sex is a primary need, like food and shelter. I try not to judge either persons in that situation, nor encourage or justify the behavior, BUT walking in those shoes is a very tough mile.
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ginax89 January 10th, 2009, 5:34 am
well all men are different, some men need alot and they are ok.
others can get it all day and its still not enough, they are just the type who needs more than one.. some men love sleeping with more than one woman, i guess it has something to do with variety.
but some just need alot,
try keeping his attention, satisfy him.
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~KARY~ January 10th, 2009, 5:40 am
DEPENDS ON UR HUSBAND
AND I THINK ONLY U KNOW HIM VERY WELL THEN ALL OF US
WHAT DOES UR GUT FEELING TELL U??
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RUSS M January 10th, 2009, 6:09 am
if you have been holding out for some time he has already cheated .so do not hold out
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Question It All January 10th, 2009, 6:46 am
Cheating is not so much about a lack of sex as it is a lack of character, morals, and respect for yourself and your spouse. I have a cousin who habitually cheats on all of his lovers and spouses. He has been married four times and always had at least a couple of steady girlfriends during his marriages. He also maintains a real big porno collection and is not lacking any attention. Yet he cheats.
People who say it is because the wife doesn't put-out or whatever are just looking to shift the blame onto the innocent party in an attempt to justify their wrong behavior. I hope all is well with you and that 2009 sees you healthy, happy, loved and in love!
Lorenzo
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Unsilenced Lioness January 10th, 2009, 7:27 am
Oh Jebus. you should never have to worry about a good man…If you are, you might be with the wrong man.
Blessings kiddo and happy ner year
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tempestuous T January 10th, 2009, 7:51 am
It depends on the man, don't let your husband make you think that he did it because you weren't giving it up enough or you weren't doing it for him. There is such a thing called "communication". When there is a problem in the bedroom, it is up to the unhappy party to talk about it and get the problem solved. If your husband kept going soft while you were doing it, would you feel undesired and therefore go get it from someone else, or would you talk about it, just in case there is some other issue involved, like stress, or disease? See what I'm getting at? Don't let him drag you down. He messed up. Don't let him turn it around and blame it on you. Let the best times of last year be the worst times of this year. Okay, girl? He is bringing you down, move on.
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Been there….